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Therapy for Grief and Loss

New Moon Psychotherapy offers Therapy for Grief and Loss in Downtown Toronto with online sessions available across Ontario.

Grief is a universal human experience.

It is also one of the most painful experiences we will ever endure. Within the shadows of grief, there is a transformative power that can lead us to a place of healing and growth.

In our darkest moments, we discover the strength we never knew existed.

We learn to embrace vulnerability, to lean on others for support, and to find solace in the beauty of human connection.

Grief invites us to reflect on the preciousness of life and the fragility of our existence. It reminds us to cherish the moments we have and to cultivate gratitude for the love and connections we share. It compels us to reevaluate our priorities, to let go of what no longer serves us, and to embrace the opportunities for growth and transformation that arise from loss.

Therapy for Grief and Loss in Downtown Toronto

What are the symptoms of grief?

Grief is a natural and complex response to loss, however, it affects everyone differently. There are common symptoms that many individuals experience when navigating the process of grief:

Other common symptoms of grief may include:

Feelings of emptiness or numbness
Social withdrawal or isolation
Irritability or restlessness
Changes in appetite or weight
Difficulty accepting the loss

These symptoms are a normal part of the grieving process, and it’s essential to give yourself permission to feel and process them at your own pace. A trained grief therapist can help you through the process.

What are different forms of grief?

Loss of a loved one

Grief which occurs following the death of a loved one (eg. family member, friend, or pet). It involves navigating through the emotions and adjustments that arise from the permanent absence of someone important to us.

Anticipatory grief

A deeply emotional experience that many individuals face when they know that a loved one’s death or a significant loss is imminent. Anticipatory grief often emerges when we are faced with the impending loss of someone we deeply care about, such as a terminally ill family member or dear friend. It can also arise in other situations where we anticipate significant life changes, such as the loss of a job, a divorce, or a relocation. It’s a natural response attempting to prepare us for the inevitable.

Ambiguous grief

Grief which occurs when we experience loss without clear closure or acknowledgment. It can happen in situations such as the disappearance of a loved one, a strained relationship, or when someone is physically present but emotionally absent.

Complicated grief

Complicated grief is a prolonged and intense form of grief that is characterized by persistent and severe grief symptoms. Unlike typical grief, which lessens in intensity over time, complicated grief persists and interferes with daily functioning and overall wellbeing.

Trauma related grief

A grieving response that stems from the loss or changes caused by a traumatic event. Trauma survivors may grieve the loss of safety, trust, or normalcy. It can involve mourning the loss of relationships, identity, or a sense of control. Trauma related grief often involves trauma processing and grief support because it intertwines with traumatic memories and experiences. It is a complex and challenging experience that can affect individuals in profound ways, both emotionally and physically.

Disenfranchised grief

Grief that is hidden, is not openly acknowledged, validated, supported by social norms. For example, grieving the loss of a non-legitimate relationship (Eg. Extramarital affair, ex-spouse, colleague, etc.), suicide loss, abuser, abortion, etc. This form of grief often results in experiences of invalidation and isolation, as people may not understand or are unsupportive of disclosures.

Ecological grief

Grief that occurs in response to witnessing or anticipating the loss of ecosystems and species due to environmental degradation, climate change, and other ecological crises. People often report feeling sadness, anger, or a sense of helplessness related to witnessing the destruction of ecosystems, the loss of biodiversity, or the impact of natural disasters. It can also evoke a deep concern for future generations and the planet they will inherit.

Collective grief

Sometimes, grief is experienced on a larger scale by a community or society due to a shared loss, such as a natural disaster, a terrorist attack, or a pandemic. This type of grief can be complex and may involve feelings of collective trauma, loss of safety, and a need for collective healing and support.

Therapy for Grief and Loss in Downtown Toronto

How can New Moon Psychotherapy help?

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

An evidence-based therapeutic approach that can be beneficial in navigating the grief journey. CBT helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors that may be perpetuating their grief symptoms. By replacing unhelpful thoughts with healthier ones, CBT can promote healing and facilitate the development of effective coping skills.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

EMDR can help individuals process and resolve emotional distress related to traumatic experiences, including grief. Through guided eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation, EMDR helps reprogram the brain’s response to the traumatic memories associated with grief.

Induced After-Death Communication (IADC) Therapy

IADC is a specialized, EMDR-based therapy designed to help individuals process grief, traumatic loss, and unresolved emotions following the death of a loved one. Using guided bilateral stimulation, IADC helps reduce the emotional intensity of grief, transforming the way grief is carried while supporting greater acceptance, emotional relief, and the ability to maintain a meaningful bond with the person who has died.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy

A powerful approach that helps navigate the complexities of grief. IFS views the mind as a system composed of different parts, each with its own unique perspectives and roles. By understanding and befriending these parts, IFS allows for healing and integration. Through this gentle process of self-exploration and compassion, individuals can find solace and move forward in their grief journey.

Mindfulness-Based Therapies

Mindfulness-based approaches such as meditation and breathwork, can also be valuable tools in processing grief. Mindfulness helps us cultivate awareness of the present moment, allowing us to acknowledge and accept our emotions without judgment. By practicing mindfulness, we can develop a compassionate and resilient mindset, enabling us to cope more effectively with the challenges of grief.

Psychodynamic Psychotherapy

This approach can help individuals uncover and understand the deeper emotions and psychological dynamics that underlie grief and help them integrate the loss to their personal narrative to find meaning and acceptance. It is also useful when working through complicated grief.

Somatic Therapy

A mind-body approach, recognizing the integral connection between our physical and emotional experiences. By exploring bodily sensations, movement, and breath, somatic therapy helps release emotional tension and trauma stored in the body. Somatic therapy can provide a safe space to explore and process grief, offering support and facilitating healing.

What if I don’t know what therapy is right for me?

Starting therapy and choosing the right therapist can be overwhelming. We want to make this process as stress free as possible. If you choose to meet with a therapist at New Moon Psychotherapy, you will first have a brief call with our administrative assistant or be asked to complete a brief intake form. The information that you share will help us determine which therapist would be a good fit for you.

You will then have an option to meet with the therapist for a complimentary 15-minute consultation. This is a chance for you to ask questions that will help you decide if they are the right fit for you.