Emilia Pacholec, Registered Psychotherapist

Emilia Pacholec

RP

Registered Psychotherapist

In-Person
Thursdays 10:45am - 5:00pm

Client Focus:

Adults (18+) Couples

Areas of Support:

Addictions Adults In All Relationship Structures Anxiety Disorders Child On Child Sexual Abuse Childhood Sexual Abuse Complex PTSD Couples Therapy - Desire Discrepancy Couples Therapy - ENM Couples Therapy - Infidelity and Betrayal Couples Therapy - Intimacy Couples Therapy - Trauma Impact sex/human trafficking Couples/Folks In All Relationship Structures Dissociative Disorders (DID) Domestic Violence Emotional Dysregulation Families of Survivors Grooming Intimacy After Sexual Trauma Marital Rape Non-Suicidal Self-Injury/Self-Harm Perfectionism/Self-Criticism PTSD Rape Self-Injury Sex Therapy - Low Desire/Desire Discrepancy Sex Therapy - Out of Control Sexual Behaviour (Porn/Sex Addiction) Sex Therapy - Painful Sex Sex Therapy - Pelvic Pain Sex Therapy - Sex After Sexual Violence Sex Therapy - Vaginismus Sextortion Sexual Assault Sexual Exploitation Sexual Harrassment Substance Use Substance Use/Abuse Suicidal Ideation Suicide Ideation Survivors Guilt Survivors of Human Rights Violations Survivors of Human Trafficking Survivors of Torture Trauma Trauma - Childhood Sexual Abuse Trauma - CPTSD Trauma - Criminal Victimization/Community Violence Trauma - Intimate Partner Violence Trauma - PTSD Trauma - Sexual Assault/Rape Trauma - Sexual Violence

Session Fees:

$250 individual (in person), $300 couples (in person)

I began my career working with youth and adults experiencing Borderline Personality Disorder, as well as justice-involved and high-risk youth. Since then, I have focused primarily on post-traumatic stress and related difficulties among survivors of sexual and criminal violence.

Each day, I support survivors of various traumas, including childhood sexual abuse, rape, grooming, robbery, human trafficking, kidnapping, and assault. I have a special interest in supporting relationships in which one or more partners are affected by trauma.

I deeply understand how these experiences impact our thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and relationships, and I truly believe that relief is possible.

My approach is genuine, empathic, and directive. Recognizing that we often avoid the topics we need to discuss most, I promise to ask the hard questions while respecting your choice to answer them.

You might believe that life can’t get better or that you’re not capable of growth. My goal is to empower you to see your strengths, to overcome your difficulties, and to transform your life.

Trauma is not a life sentence. You can trust, laugh, and love again.

Research Experience
While my work is now focused on clinical practice, I have contributed to numerous research initiatives since 2011, with a focus on evaluating psychotherapeutic interventions, including mindfulness-based approaches for families who have experienced adversity. I have presented and been invited to present this work at national conferences such as the Canadian Psychological Association and Mindful Society, and have published in the Journal of Community Mental Health on Dialectical Behaviour Therapy with high-risk and justice-involved youth. I have collaborated with organizations including the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH), Kids Help Phone, London Family Court Clinic, and research labs at York University and Western University.

Speaking Engagements
I have had the privilege of sharing my clinical expertise on trauma—particularly the impact of sexual trauma on relationships and intimacy—across a range of media, academic, and community settings. Selected engagements include:

  • Interviewed by AM 640 Toronto on PTSD (PTSD Awareness Day)
  • Braving Healing Documentary – Expert interview on childhood sexual abuse
  • Braving Healing Resource Video Series on healing from childhood sexual abuse
  • The Patrauma Party Podcast – Learning to Trust Yourself
  • Western University
  • University of Toronto (Psychology Student Association; Career Panel in Psychology)
  • National Women’s Show
  • Taboo Show Toronto (formerly Everything to Do with Sex Show) – Mindful Sex
  • Mary J. Wright Research and Education Centre
  • Psychotherapy and multidisciplinary health clinics
  • The Ironwood Project – Reclaiming Your Sexuality After Sexual Trauma (workshops for survivors and partners)

Program Development
I draw on my clinical training and expertise to develop programs that support community organizations and mental health providers in offering specialized, responsive care. I was the lead developer of an asynchronous DBT program for justice-involved and high-risk youth. I have also developed programs integrating mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) for use in private practice.

CBT
Cognitive Behavioral Conjoint Therapy
CPT
Couples Therapy Intensive
DBT
EMDR
EMDR Intensive
IFS
Sensate Focus
Sex Therapy

I earned a Master’s degree in Counselling Psychology from Western University, a Bachelor of Arts (Honors) in Psychology from York University, and two post-graduate certificates in sex therapy from the University of Guelph.

My work is informed by extensive postgraduate training. Selected advanced trainings most relevant to my current clinical focus include:

  • Advanced Training in Cognitive Processing Therapy (Level II) – Dr. Kate Chard
  • CPT for PTSD Intensive Training – Dr. Kate Chard
  • DBT for PTSD (28-hour Intensive) – Dr. Martin Bohous & Dr. Shelley McMain
  • EMDR 5-Day Intensive (EMDRIA-approved) – Roy Kiessling
  • EMDR for Complex Trauma and EMDR Integration with Somatic Therapy and Parts Work – Rebecca Kase, Dr. Daphne Fatter, & Dr. Sandra Paulsen
  • Healing Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse – Robin Shapiro
  • Dissociative Identity Disorder in Clinical Practice – Dr. Adrian Fletcher
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy – Dr. Alexia Rothman
  • IFS Therapy for Couples – Dr. Mona Barbera, Stacy Ruse, & Patricia Rich
  • Intensive Sex Therapy Training Certificate – University of Guelph
  • Applied Professional Sexuality Practices Certificate – University of Guelph
  • Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior – Doug Braun-Harvey
  • Reclaiming Pleasure After Trauma: A Somatic Approach to Sexual Healing – Dr. Holly Richmond
  • Moving Beyond Sexual Trauma Toward Sexual Pleasure – Dr. Kristen Mark
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Levels 1 & 2) – The Gottman Institute

Outside of therapy I love trying new restaurants, spending time in nature, staying active and decompressing with some delightfully bad reality tv. I also have an adventure loving cat, Lou, who joins me for hikes and trick training.